Don't worry whether or not they finally understand you.Love them and release them.

"one night stands are like having a Chinese food. It will leave you hungry an hour later.”

Approach the dating game with an attitude of openness and experimentation. It is possible that every date you go on, could lead you to Mr./Ms. Right but… keep an open mind and your feet planted firmly on the ground and you will at least learn something new on every date you go on

Remember, when you are single, it doesn’t mean you need to feel ashamed. Whether you are, or are not, in a relationship doesn’t say anything about who you are as a person.

Singles need to be more flexible about the age thing. Youthful extremely attractive people have tons of options and can afford to be choosy. AND as long as they have the perception of choice, they’re going to choose to trade up for someone a little bit cuter, a little bit richer, a little bit closer. It’s not fair, it’s not right, it just is.

The holidays bring a lot of pressure to the single person. Finding a date for the office party, and just concern about being alone for the holidays can be emotional. The kiss at midnight on New Years, becomes a symbol of somehow being back on top, in control of your life and lovable. I was using those random nameless guys to build myself up and the moment never really matched my romantic expectations.

"I'm giving up! There is no one out there" As if this will attract someone to you right away since you have now stopped looking!

“no thanks… one night stands are like having a Chinese food. It will leave you hungry an hour later.”

Now you might think its easy to find someone with all these singles living in one spot right? Well think again; one person described it to me this way... Imagine you are at a big mall with thousands of people there at one time, how many of those people do you think you would get to meet personally and how many would you actually want to date?

Prepare yourself for the next phase of your life. Try to move on without regrets and hatred - this will only keep you at a standstill.

Make the decision to move on and leave the past behind, no matter what it is or how “wronged” you felt you were.

Ask yourself .... am I paying too much attention to what I DON'T want? Another one that drives me crazy... There are no good men out there... where are all the men? or from the guys... Are there any NORMAL women out there? I can't find a good women