*Hate to Date? See what kind of Dater you are...

 1. Procrastinator I’ll start dating next month, next year, when I lose weight, when I fix myself, when my kids grow up, and so on.2. Worrier I’m afraid of rejection. Online dating is dangerous. If I go to an event I won't know anyone, I am afraid of someone raping, kidnapping, or killing me.3. Skeptic There is no use in trying. There is no one out there for me. I will never meet anyone. Women are all Bitches. Men suck. Most of the guys are not worth my time.4. Beginner I don’t know the first thing about dating, and I am not ready to put myself out there.The above questions came from : Berndt, Debra (2010). Let Love In: Open Your Heart and Mind to Attract Your Ideal Partner (p. 178). Wiley. Kindle Edition.Once you can identify which one you are...it will be easier for you to work towards improving your success with dating.Procrastinators – well you may have this problem in other areas of your life and as you may have already figured out, life will pass you right by if you don't make a decision to get to it right now! Worriers need to try to break it down a bit. Learning to let go more, understand we can't control all outcomes but that shouldn't stop you from trying. Many times we hear only the negatives and believe that this makes up the majority of the dating pool ...NOT SO! Just like you.. there are millions of honest, loving singles out there..and less BAD GUYS then you think looking and searching as you read this right now.Skeptic ah yes.. Guilty of this one myself, you must work hard everyday to be grateful, what IS going well in your life, and what you do have. This will keep the “boomerang” effect of the universes laws of attraction coming back to bite you in the ____Beginners- This one is easy! Come on out to our events and see for yourself you have nothing to loose. Remember how scary it was learning to drive? And how thrilling it was to pass that drivers test? ( I was going to use the learning to ride a bicycle.. but for some of us that was a VERY long time ago) Anyway, when you attend your first event this will be the feeling you should walk away with. I DID IT! Wow, that wasn't so hard after all in fact I HAD FUN!So I hope to see you at an event soon … ALL of you Procrastinators, Worriers, Skeptics, and Beginners! Check the online Calendar of Events And just come on out, you'll never know unless you GO!Gail7 in-Heaven Singles EventsOn your search for the one, we make being single fun!Web site- http://www.7-in-heaven.comOpinions? Comments? Personal experiences?You can comment below anonymously