“Nobody is coming to magically fix things. You have to do the same thing you did in your career and take action so you can be successful.”

"I'm giving up! There is no one out there" As if this will attract someone to you right away since you have now stopped looking!

Now you might think its easy to find someone with all these singles living in one spot right? Well think again; one person described it to me this way... Imagine you are at a big mall with thousands of people there at one time, how many of those people do you think you would get to meet personally and how many would you actually want to date?

it's about being more comfortable being single... being “labeled” as SINGLE, and realizing its not that bad.

No one wants to be alone. Best simple suggestion to help you feel a little better during this adjustment period try volunteering your time or donating to help those less fortunate.

*This below true story hopefully will bring new faith and inspiration to you all while searching

Spend time with the family and friends in your life that love you at maybe a coffee shop, book store, anywhere but the restaurants packed with both happy and unhappy couples going through the motions!

No one wants to be alone. Best simple suggestion to help you feel a little better during this adjustment period try volunteering your time or donating to help those less fortunate.

We discount so many on first impressions while we are waiting for the “right one” to appear.

Thats when you need to take a short vacation from finding the one, but dont give up! There is something to the old saying you will find it when you least expect it

“ I don’t want a bunch of SINGLES, in this place, it lowers our standards and cheapens our classy restaurant. We are a family place”

Its more respectful to say no thanks- I don't think we are a match then lead the person down a road you never wanted them on in the first place!