“Nobody is coming to magically fix things. You have to do the same thing you did in your career and take action so you can be successful.”

Nobody dies of a broken heart: you fall, you get up, you dust off, you move on.

The holidays bring a lot of pressure to the single person. Finding a date for the office party, and just concern about being alone for the holidays can be emotional. The kiss at midnight on New Years, becomes a symbol of somehow being back on top, in control of your life and lovable. I was using those random nameless guys to build myself up and the moment never really matched my romantic expectations.

“no thanks… one night stands are like having a Chinese food. It will leave you hungry an hour later.”

Ask yourself .... am I paying too much attention to what I DON'T want? Another one that drives me crazy... There are no good men out there... where are all the men? or from the guys... Are there any NORMAL women out there? I can't find a good women

Being single shouldn't be a reason to feel blue however, and neither should Valentine's Day. Instead of letting this mostly commercially-fueled holiday drag you down, why not celebrate being single?

What you think about ~ you bring about! FEELINGS then attached to your thoughts then fuel it. Let is go…any negative beliefs you may have, work everyday toward being Grateful for what IS going well in your life, and what you do have. Say YES to life and LIFE says YES to you!

Serial daters are like hungry ghosts always on the move, never satisfied and never settling.

Doing many different things to expand your world while seeking a new partner will make any search shorter because time flies while you are having a good time.

Every person you meet represents the ”you” and who you are at the moment you met him.