Singles need to be more flexible about the age thing. Youthful extremely attractive people have tons of options and can afford to be choosy. AND as long as they have the perception of choice, they’re going to choose to trade up for someone a little bit cuter, a little bit richer, a little bit closer. It’s not fair, it’s not right, it just is.

it's about being more comfortable being single... being “labeled” as SINGLE, and realizing its not that bad.

We discount so many on first impressions while we are waiting for the “right one” to appear.

Problem is people can actually become addicted to online dating, its like window-shopping with an endless supply of merchandise.

I see women I would like to meet but am afraid to approach them because they never smile and sometimes even look angry. Am I doing something wrong? Or are all women on long island stressed out?

Serial daters are like hungry ghosts always on the move, never satisfied and never settling.

Its more respectful to say no thanks- I don't think we are a match then lead the person down a road you never wanted them on in the first place!