Singles need to be more flexible about the age thing. Youthful extremely attractive people have tons of options and can afford to be choosy. AND as long as they have the perception of choice, they’re going to choose to trade up for someone a little bit cuter, a little bit richer, a little bit closer. It’s not fair, it’s not right, it just is.

The holidays bring a lot of pressure to the single person. Finding a date for the office party, and just concern about being alone for the holidays can be emotional. The kiss at midnight on New Years, becomes a symbol of somehow being back on top, in control of your life and lovable. I was using those random nameless guys to build myself up and the moment never really matched my romantic expectations.

“no thanks… one night stands are like having a Chinese food. It will leave you hungry an hour later.”

Prepare yourself for the next phase of your life. Try to move on without regrets and hatred - this will only keep you at a standstill.

Being single shouldn't be a reason to feel blue however, and neither should Valentine's Day. Instead of letting this mostly commercially-fueled holiday drag you down, why not celebrate being single?

*This below true story hopefully will bring new faith and inspiration to you all while searching

Perhaps it would have been a good idea to leave "Kirk" with the impression you are interested. But its a fine line- between flirting and being too overbearing.

Millionaire Matchmaker, Patti has accomplished this fine art quite well. She likes to call it "POWER DATING" instead of Speed Dating, since the candidates are pre-screened.

Yes we women from Venus do congregate much more then the men from Mars.We go to the bathroom together, feel the need more urgently then the men to go to events together....

Holidays bring a lot of pressure to the single person. The kiss at midnight on New Years, becomes a symbol of somehow being back on top, in control of your life and lovable.

When it will happen for you? That is one of life's mysteries.But one thing is for sure... unless the pizza delivery girl or boy is your dreamboat, you won't meet someone sitting at home!

Every person you meet represents the ”you” and who you are at the moment you met him.