"one night stands are like having a Chinese food. It will leave you hungry an hour later.”

The holidays bring a lot of pressure to the single person. Finding a date for the office party, and just concern about being alone for the holidays can be emotional. The kiss at midnight on New Years, becomes a symbol of somehow being back on top, in control of your life and lovable. I was using those random nameless guys to build myself up and the moment never really matched my romantic expectations.

“no thanks… one night stands are like having a Chinese food. It will leave you hungry an hour later.”

Now you might think its easy to find someone with all these singles living in one spot right? Well think again; one person described it to me this way... Imagine you are at a big mall with thousands of people there at one time, how many of those people do you think you would get to meet personally and how many would you actually want to date?

Thats when you need to take a short vacation from finding the one, but dont give up! There is something to the old saying you will find it when you least expect it