“Nobody is coming to magically fix things. You have to do the same thing you did in your career and take action so you can be successful.”

Nobody dies of a broken heart: you fall, you get up, you dust off, you move on.

Approach the dating game with an attitude of openness and experimentation. It is possible that every date you go on, could lead you to Mr./Ms. Right but… keep an open mind and your feet planted firmly on the ground and you will at least learn something new on every date you go on

The holidays bring a lot of pressure to the single person. Finding a date for the office party, and just concern about being alone for the holidays can be emotional. The kiss at midnight on New Years, becomes a symbol of somehow being back on top, in control of your life and lovable. I was using those random nameless guys to build myself up and the moment never really matched my romantic expectations.

Now you might think its easy to find someone with all these singles living in one spot right? Well think again; one person described it to me this way... Imagine you are at a big mall with thousands of people there at one time, how many of those people do you think you would get to meet personally and how many would you actually want to date?

What you think about ~ you bring about! FEELINGS then attached to your thoughts then fuel it. Let is go…any negative beliefs you may have, work everyday toward being Grateful for what IS going well in your life, and what you do have. Say YES to life and LIFE says YES to you!

Perhaps it would have been a good idea to leave "Kirk" with the impression you are interested. But its a fine line- between flirting and being too overbearing.

Millionaire Matchmaker, Patti has accomplished this fine art quite well. She likes to call it "POWER DATING" instead of Speed Dating, since the candidates are pre-screened.

Yes we women from Venus do congregate much more then the men from Mars.We go to the bathroom together, feel the need more urgently then the men to go to events together....

Problem is people can actually become addicted to online dating, its like window-shopping with an endless supply of merchandise.

Thats when you need to take a short vacation from finding the one, but dont give up! There is something to the old saying you will find it when you least expect it

Its more respectful to say no thanks- I don't think we are a match then lead the person down a road you never wanted them on in the first place!

When it will happen for you? That is one of life's mysteries.But one thing is for sure... unless the pizza delivery girl or boy is your dreamboat, you won't meet someone sitting at home!

Doing many different things to expand your world while seeking a new partner will make any search shorter because time flies while you are having a good time.