Holidays bring a lot of pressure to the single person. The kiss at midnight on New Years, becomes a symbol of somehow being back on top, in control of your life and lovable.

Commitment phobics love the chase but they don’t want the kill. This may happen after 1 night, 1 week, 1 month, 3 months or 1 year. They may start sabotaging just as they are about to get married, or just before or after there's a decision made to move in together.

I see women I would like to meet but am afraid to approach them because they never smile and sometimes even look angry. Am I doing something wrong? Or are all women on long island stressed out?