“Nobody is coming to magically fix things. You have to do the same thing you did in your career and take action so you can be successful.”

The holidays bring a lot of pressure to the single person. Finding a date for the office party, and just concern about being alone for the holidays can be emotional. The kiss at midnight on New Years, becomes a symbol of somehow being back on top, in control of your life and lovable. I was using those random nameless guys to build myself up and the moment never really matched my romantic expectations.

Doing many different things to expand your world while seeking a new partner will make any search shorter because time flies while you are having a good time.