You can choose to be lonely or not. It is a choice.

Perhaps it would have been a good idea to leave "Kirk" with the impression you are interested. But its a fine line- between flirting and being too overbearing.

No answer is an answer, whether it is from a man or a woman.Women do tend to be less upfront, as we Venus people... don't like to hurt feelings so we ladies somehow think no answer is kinder.BUT MARTIANS prefer a straight up - no thanks answer.