*Loneliness (it's how you choose to socialize)

Loneliness (it's how you choose to socialize)

One of the biggest causes of unhappiness is loneliness.  I'm not referring to having somebody special in your life; having a significant other doesn't mean you won't be lonely.  Being lonely generally stems from lack of social stimulation.  The technology age is definitely perpetuating this by means of text messaging, Facebook, Twitter and other 'Social Networks'.  People are so addicted to these forms of social technology that they forget humans require real genuine human interaction. Socially insecure people tend to gravitate to online socializing because they have more control over the amount and timing of their interactions.  Reducing face to face interactions tends to reduce social anxiety for less extroverted individuals. Unfortunately staying within your comfort zone, limits personal growth, and prevents the development of valuable face to face relationships.Don't have something to do tonight? Instead of commenting on everybody's Facebook statuses, give somebody a call and go out for a drink, you would be surprised how much better it feels to talk to a real life physical human being.If you are single and feel like you need a significant other to be happy, I am going to be blunt,  YOU ARE WRONG.  You can't be in a healthy relationship until you are happy independently.  Using somebody else as a crutch for your happiness is a one way trip to an unhealthy relationship.  If you are struggling to find a companion, stop looking in bars and stop looking online.  Consider joining activity clubs for singles or participate in a group activity that encourages socialization.  You will meet like minded people who share more in common with you that booze or Facebook friends.If you really struggle with making friends, read Dale Carnegie's classic book "How to Win Friends and Influence People".  This book was written in 1937 and still stands true to this day. It will supply you with the tools needed to form amazing relationships.Or visit this page 10 Good Tips to help you fight Lonelinessor step away from the computer and start meeting real singles in person today!SEE CALENDAR of EVENTS Warm Regards,

Gail Adams  Event Coordinator 7 in Heaven Singles Events On your search for the one, we make being single fun!Web site- www.7-in-heaven.com631- 592-9804